How to Learn, Think & Adapt Effectively
The Skills Needed in a Changing World

Why Thinking, Learning, & Regulation Matter in a Changing World

To thrive in an ever-changing and increasingly complex world, individuals need to be able to think, learn, and adapt effectively. This requires ongoing reflection, relearning, and the ability to respond thoughtfully to change, challenge, and uncertainty. Creative and critical thinking are essential for reasoning through complex problems and finding meaningful solutions.

Over the past decades, many schools — both internationally and in South Africa — have embarked on journeys to develop thinking communities and thinking schools, with a focus on teaching learners how to think and learn, rather than what to memorise. Organisations such as International Association for Cognitive Education, Thinking Schools South Africa, and Institute for the Advancement of Cognitive Education have played an important role in advancing this work.

Despite these efforts, many learners — and later students and adults — still do not develop the thinking, learning, and self-regulation skills needed to reach their full potential. Parents and professionals are often unsure how to support these skills intentionally, especially when learners feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disengaged.

This is where my services and coaching approach come in

Through my work as an occupational therapist and coach, I support learners, students, and adults in developing the thinking, learning, and regulation skills needed to function effectively at school, university, work, and in everyday life. My expanding services focus not only on academic performance, but also on readiness for learning, emotional and nervous system regulation, and increasing self-direction.

These services form part of my evolving coaching offerings, including structured programmes designed to help individuals become more intentional and capable as the CEO of their Brain, Emotions, Nervous System, and Future You. More information about these services and programmes is available on the Coaching page.

“To live is to act. To act is to decide. Every day is an endless sequence of decisions. The most important decision we can make is how and what to think about things.”

– Paul and Elder (2014)

MY APPROACH

SESSIONS

ASSESSMENTS

I have learned the following from
MY EXPERIENCE OVER MORE THAN 3 DECADES

Increasing Demands, Limited Lasting Impact

Despite major advances in education, technology, and access to information, a growing number of learners struggle to cope with the ongoing academic, emotional, and cognitive demands placed on them.

Over the years, I have observed that many learners — including high-achieving students — receive extra lessons, tutoring, medication, and/or professional support. Parents often invest significant financial resources in “extra help”, yet many families cannot afford sustained intervention, and even when support is available, it does not always lead to lasting independence.

Dependency Rather Than Capacity

As a result, learners frequently become dependent on external support rather than developing growth-oriented mindsets, effective thinking and learning skills, independent learning abilities, and the social, emotional, and self-regulation strategies needed to cope with life’s demands.

At the same time, many children are overscheduled with extramural activities, leaving little unstructured time for reflection, recovery, and consolidation. Parents and educators are also under increasing pressure and often lack the time, energy, or specialised knowledge to intentionally support thinking, learning, and regulation.

Hidden Barriers in Learning Systems

In addition, there are often hidden barriers within curricula, tasks, learning materials, and expectations that unintentionally block effective thinking and learning. Although learners are expected to think critically, reason, plan, and self-monitor on a daily basis, limited explicit attention is given to how these processes and strategies develop.

This understanding has guided the development of my current and expanding services, which aim to support individuals in becoming more intentional and self-directed as the CEO of their Brain, Emotions, Nervous System, and Future You.

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Contact Info

Estelle Brettenny

 Phone

082 430 7956

 Address

1 A Stepping Stone Street,
Everglen,
Durbanville,
7550

  

There are many stakeholders that can play a role regarding these problems and needs, and I strive to do my part to equip learners of all generations with the necessary skills with the BE MORE Approach.
With my services, individuals or groups (Grade 4 – 12 and adults) can acquire the necessary skills and a better understanding of how to learn effectively, which may improve their abilities in school, university, or at work. I also work with educators to help them teach their learners more effectively.

Feel free to contact me directly should you require any additional information.